Marriage is a big step and it is important to know that it
takes constant work. While it is scary to look at the statistics that show 50%
of all marriages end in divorce, it is good to remember that marriage can be successful.
Marriage is important and worth fighting for. Virginia Satir, a family
therapist suggests five daily love lessons that can help us communicate and
connect with our spouse. Those steps are:
Wishes, Hopes, and Dreams: Describe three things you hope for
in the long run and in the short run. A partner who understands your dreams is
able to help them happen. Remember that hopes change as we go along and it's
important to keep each other current.
New Information: We often forget to update our
partner about a change in plans or circumstances. We tell people at work or a
family member and think we've told our spouse. Make the daily updates a ritual.
Information is crucial to staying in-synch and feeling connected.
Puzzles: Clear-up big or little mysteries
before they become suspicions, jealousy, false assumptions, or resentments.
Most "puzzles" have simple explanations.
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